There are 3 types of marriage practiced in Nigeria. Traditional, Religious and Court marriage.
Its your choice to take part in one or all of them. An average Nigeria wants a good home like every other human in the world, but the issue is how often do they take care of their partner.
The Nigeria man marries and have the believe he can leave his wife whenever he is fed up and can re-marry whoever he wants at any point in time without any kind of effect.
They should be a prenuptial agreements to Nigerian marriages, the women should always insist on having one before going into a life commitment, by so doing it will help them whenever the man finds a new pride or a beauty outside and wants to end the relationship, at least the women will have something to fall back to when the so call happy home turns to not so happy any more.
Lots of times i have seen the Nigeria married women suffer after their marriage has fail, they suffer emotionally, physically and financially. Financial suffering can be averted if the women wise up and make sure they make the men go into prenuptial agreements while the love is still booming, and knowing the Nigeria man its always LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT for them when they meet "their soul-mate".
Lets take for example the Muslim marriage in Nigeria, it allows the man to marry as many as they can take care of, with education setting in i don't think most men wants to marry more than 1 wife and with the women protecting themselves with the PRENUPTIAL agreement the man will have to re-think about going into a second marriage not to talk about a third or fourth. Well if he is so rich he can do it, but it gives the women something to fall back to and not have to worry about how they will take care of themselves and the kids they have for the man.
With this kind of agreement it will strengthen the way we view marriages and see our women and make us respect and hold them to a high esteem, at the same time i want our women to have conscience and treat our men right and always do what is expected of them as a housewives and make sure the man has to cause to leave them for another. The PRENUPTIAL agreement is for both of you.
